By John Alanis
www.women-approach-you.com

Most people let others define their reality for them because they simply don’t realize you can create your own reality. In the movie The Truman Show, there’s a great line, one to live by: people tend to accept the reality with which they are presented.

If you present yourself as a guy who’s scared of women, women will think of you as a guys who’s scared of women. If you present yourself as a confident guy who’s “good with women,” they’ll tend to accept you as that.

Con men understand this better than anyone. If you ever see a 20/20 or 48 hours interview with a con man, you’ll see what I mean. They concoct some of the most unbelievable tales imaginable, yet people who should know better take them at face value and fall for their con. Why are they so effective? Because, in the moment, they believe the reality they’re presenting to the mark. And because they believe it and present it (and their mark wants to believe it), everyone else does, even though a quick examination of the facts would prove otherwise.

Consider this: if you take the geekiest high school nerd, change his dress, teach him to walk, train him on my secrets, then put him in a new school positioned as the “bad boy,” everyone at the new school will accept him as the bad boy, even though he was the nerd at the other one. Why? Because he simply presented a different reality to people.

If you want to achieve power and success in the world (not just with women), then present a powerful and successful guy to the world. Walk, talk, and act as the successful do. Study the things they do, do the things they do. You will become as successful as they are, but the world will accept you a lot sooner if you present yourself that way.

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On with the fun…

-John Alanis
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
www.women-approach-you.com